First-Time Buyer Guide · Maryland · St. Mary's County
Buying your first home feels big because it is. Most of the stress, though, comes from not knowing what's coming next. This guide walks you through the whole process in Maryland, in order, with the St. Mary's County details that most national guides skip. Read it start to finish, or jump to the step you're on.
What Should First-Time Buyers Do First?
Check your credit and fix any errors before a lender pulls it.
Figure out a comfortable monthly payment, including taxes, insurance, and any HOA, not just the mortgage.
Talk to a lender and get preapproved, so you know your real budget.
Pick your agent and talk through what matters most: commute, schools, space, budget.
Start touring with a short list of must-haves and nice-to-haves.
How Much Money Do You Need to Buy a House?
Most first-time buyers need less up front than they think. You'll plan for three buckets:
Down payment: 0% for eligible VA buyers, as little as 3.5% for FHA, and as little as 3% on some conventional programs.
Closing costs: roughly 2% to 5% of the price, covering lender fees, title insurance, the appraisal, recording and transfer taxes, and prepaid taxes and insurance.
Earnest money and inspections: paid during the contract, with the deposit credited back to you at settlement.
Keep a cushion after closing, too, for moving costs and the first surprise repair. Seller concessions can sometimes cover part of your closing costs, which we can negotiate in your offer.
What Credit Score Do You Need?
You don't need perfect credit. FHA loans can work with scores in the 580 to 620 range, and conventional loans typically look for 620 or higher for the best terms. A higher score gets you a better rate, which lowers your payment for years, so it's worth checking your credit early and paying down balances before you apply.
Loan Types and Maryland Programs
Conventional: flexible, with as little as 3% down on some programs. Mortgage insurance usually applies under 20% down.
FHA: government-backed, easier credit standards, 3.5% minimum down with qualifying credit.
USDA: 0% down in eligible rural areas. Some rural parts of St. Mary's may qualify, so check a specific address on USDA's eligibility map.
Maryland Mortgage Program: the state's program for first-time buyers, with loan options and down payment assistance through approved lenders. Ask your lender whether you qualify.
What Does Getting Preapproved Actually Mean?
A preapproval means a lender has checked your credit, income, assets, and debts and told you, in writing, how much they're willing to lend. It's stronger than a prequalification, which is just an estimate. Sellers take preapproved buyers more seriously, and the process often uncovers issues early enough to fix them. Get preapproved before you start touring seriously.
Do You Need a Buyer Agent?
Your own agent represents you, not the seller. That means pricing advice, negotiating, reviewing contracts and disclosures, coordinating inspections, and keeping your deadlines on track. Before you tour with an agent, you'll sign a written buyer agreement that spells out the services and how your agent gets paid. Ask questions until it's clear. In many cases the seller ends up covering some or all of your agent's compensation, and that's something we can negotiate in your offer.
Searching and Touring Homes
Tell me what you're looking for and I'll send homes that fit, with the local details checked: school assignment, well and septic, flood zone, and drive time to the gate if you work on base. When you tour, look past paint and furniture and focus on what's expensive to change: location, layout, roof, systems, and the lot.
Making an Offer
Your offer is more than a price. It includes your financing, your deposit, your contingencies (inspection, appraisal, financing), any closing cost help you're asking for, and your settlement date. I'll pull recent comparable sales so you know what the home is really worth, and we'll build terms that make your offer strong without giving up the protections you need.
How Much Earnest Money Do You Need?
Earnest money is a good-faith deposit that shows the seller you're serious. The amount varies by price and market conditions. It's held in escrow, not handed to the seller, and it's credited toward your costs at settlement. Your contract spells out when it's refundable, which is one more reason to read your contingencies carefully.
What Is a Home Inspection, and Do You Need One?
Yes. A licensed home inspector checks the roof, structure, electrical, plumbing, heating and cooling, and more, and gives you a written report. In St. Mary's, add a well water test and septic inspection for homes that aren't on public water and sewer. After the inspection, you can ask the seller for repairs or a credit, or walk away within your inspection period if the problems are too big.
What Happens During a Home Appraisal?
Your lender orders an appraisal to confirm the home is worth what you're paying. The appraiser looks at the home and recent comparable sales. If it appraises at or above your price, you're on track. If it comes in low, we can renegotiate, you can cover the gap, or, depending on your contract, you may be able to cancel. VA and FHA appraisals also check basic safety and condition items.
What Happens Between Contract and Closing?
Your deposit goes into escrow.
Inspections happen and any repair negotiation wraps up.
Your lender orders the appraisal and moves your loan through underwriting. Don't open new credit or change jobs during this stretch.
The settlement company searches title and orders title insurance.
You line up homeowners insurance (and flood insurance if needed).
You get your final loan approval and closing disclosure.
You do a final walkthrough, then sign at settlement and get your keys.
From accepted offer to keys usually takes 30 to 60 days.
Closing Costs for Maryland Buyers
Plan for roughly 2% to 5% of the purchase price. That covers loan fees, title insurance, the appraisal, recording and transfer taxes, and prepaid items like property taxes and homeowners insurance. In Maryland, transfer and recordation taxes are often split between buyer and seller, and first-time Maryland buyers get a break on the state transfer tax.
Buying in St. Mary's County: What to Know
St. Mary's has its own rhythm, and it changes how you should shop:
Commute first: if you work on NAS Patuxent River, your gate matters. Gate 1 at Pegg Road is the only one open 24/7. My PCS buyer checklist breaks down all three gates.
Well and septic: many homes aren't on public water and sewer, so add a well water test and septic inspection to your inspection period.
Waterfront rules: land within 1,000 feet of tidal water is in Maryland's Critical Area, which limits clearing and building near the shoreline. Read what waterfront buyers need to know.
Local closing costs: St. Mary's charges a 1% county transfer tax (the first $30,000 is exempt for a home you'll live in) and $4.00 per $500 in recordation tax, plus the 0.5% state transfer tax. First-time Maryland buyers get the state rate cut to 0.25%, paid by the seller.
Build your calendar around the property search, signed contract and lender and settlement requirements for your transaction. Ask the team to confirm dates rather than relying on a general timeline. See what happens between contract and closing. Include the coverage conversation in that plan with my Southern Maryland home insurance guide.
It's Maryland's program for first-time buyers, offering loan options and down payment assistance through approved lenders. Ask your lender whether you qualify, and see loan types and programs.
Discuss the inspection scope with a licensed inspector and have your agent and attorney explain the actual contract protections. See home inspections and new construction vs. resale. Arrange any separate environmental testing through a qualified provider; my St. Mary's County radon guide helps organize that conversation.
Whether you're buying your first home or your forever home, I'm here to make the process simple, informed, and enjoyable. Tell me a bit about what you're looking for and I'll follow up personally.
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